Bought the ticket, finished the last class of my college and will say good bye to the four-year which is supposed to be the happiest period in the life in three weeks.

What did I get out of it ? Let me leave a blank, think a while and fill it up this summer!

 

When I first came across a saying that love is just the business of one person, I thought it was bullshit, but now I realized it might be true. When to start and when to end can be just decided by one's own willingness. Nobody else can decide, even the loved one, except myself! Maybe it is the end but I believe that we can be life-long friends. Knowing you,  probably is one of the best things that came out of my college life.

 

Today, one friend asked me, if your children ask you how is your college life, how are you going to answer them?  I am a bit speechless.... He was very frank, saying 'I was fucked' (It is hard to believe that this is coming out from someone who will graduate with a first-class honor degree and have got a very good job offer) Of course, he won't tell his children like this but indeed , what am I going to say? I believe in that I did not waste my time here though my life is not very exciting.  I think college is somewhere to transform us from students to mature human beings with independent thought and judgement, ability to handle more complex matters in the life, understanding of personal weakness with ways to improve them and clear life goals or simply knowing what we want (at least knowing where we are going to head in). This is my undertanding of college or something that I want myself to achieve after I graduate. I don't think I have figured out them all now but I think I could have done better if I know this at the begining. Yup, probably this is what I am going to tell my children!

 

More importantly, all the friends I make here will be my life time asset. I am happy to spend this 4-year with all of you!